So...I just realized...
Yes, I'm being pretty durnd open about the fact we are trying to get pregnant. I'm not sure *how* much more I'm going to share. One thing I am *not* going to share, for my sanity if something tragic should happen, is if I am pregnant. Not until at the very least 3 months, and I might try and stretch it to 4.
I'm sure I will tell friends and family in person, and ask them to keep it a secret. I might ask certain people for advice. I might keep private posts and publish them once I *do* announce it. It's my business, and I get to choose what part of my business I share. *ahem* pardon my defensiveness.
I'm asking that you don't ask. Please don't ask, I hate lying, but I will if you ask, then you might feel all upset when you find out I *did* lie to you. So don't ask.